How To Improve Your Relationship
If you want to know how to improve your relationship, here are some simple steps that I've found will help you to create (or recreate) warmth, love, and affection between you and your significant other.
<b>Find the Love in You!</B>
You need to find and recognise the love in yourself before you can share it with another. Sages and Saints from all traditions have told us that Love is within us — always and forever. The Yogis of India say there is a spot in the centre of your chest which is the gateway to an infinite ocean of Love within. Would you like to dive in? All you need to do is sit quietly with your eyes closed. Then in your mind's eye bring up a memory of someone or something you love. Feel your loving feelings for that person and let that loving feeling bring a warm smile to your lips. Just bask in the glow of that loving feeling for a few moments. Then smile into your body, appreciating it, feeling grateful for it.
Chinese sages invented this Inner Smile technique as a form of Chi Kung to bring health and well-being to the body. We're using it to feel wonderful and to saturate our being with a sense of Love. So bring that smiling, loving energy into the centre of your chest. Imagine there is a tiny opening there in the hollow of your chest that leads to that Infinite Love within. Feel into that space and just create a sense of infinite unending Love. Enjoy it. Soak in it. And above all, know that you can access it and feel it at any time, just by placing your attention and awareness there.
<b>Pledge Your Allegiance to Love!</b>
Now you've discovered that eternal Love is there within you, you are free from being so needy and dependent on others for your happiness. Already you are more attractive and appealing to be around. You have plugged into Love and your energetic vibration is so much more appealing to be around.
Now, as far as how to improve your relationship goes, I think a prime secret is that 'commitment to Love' that we have all so conveniently forgotten. We've been suckered by romance movies into thinking that Love should be effortless and spontaneous. Something we experience as a happening. But Love is a verb — it's something you DO! And you get to enjoy its incredible benefits if you work at bringing it into your life. You do that by making it a priority. And you demonstrate your commitment to that new value, by making small but highly significant changes in your behaviour and the way you treat others — particularly your spouse, children, boyfriend/girlfriend, significant other, and… what the heck, everybody else in your world! Get committed to Love and, I believe, Love gets committed to you.
<b>The Dance with the Beloved</b>
So make an active show of being in Love with your partner. Start saying, "I love you" frequently throughout the day whenever you are around your partner. Give unexpected hugs and kisses. Don't stand there expecting them to reciprocate. You might be doing all the 'work' to begin with — it can be frustrating, but keep dipping into that Infinite Love within, okay?
Thank your partner whenever they do something for you and show appreciation for the things they do in life and at home. If your relationship has been at a very low ebb, this can be really arduous and hard work to begin with… but you are committed to this because you want that 'loving feeling' back between you. I'm telling you to do this with your partner, but don't stop there — spread the love through all your relationships: your children, your siblings, your parents or relatives, your friends and co-workers. You deserve to improve all your relationships.
<b>Symbols of Love</b>
Now that you are all about Love, support your relationship with reminder triggers and unconscious cues. The Chinese art of Feng Shui recommends that to improve your relationship you put pictures of happy loving couples in your bedroom (and remove any pictures of single people). You can also include those small statuettes of couples hugging and kissing. I've been in the habit of buying one on every anniversary — and they are subconscious cues about coupledom, togetherness and intimacy.
<b>What's in a Name?</b>
Have you got a pet name for your loved one? When talking to your partner, if you don't already, start dropping in loving tags, like 'my darling', 'sweetheart', 'beloved', 'lover'. Some people use 'baby' but do you really want to mother your partner? Same goes for calling your man "Daddy". Steer away from mixing your metaphors like that. Stick with equal footing terms of endearment.
<b>Remove Your Clause</b>
Throw away the 'escape clause' that you keep stuffed in the back of your mind. This is that thought that you can always leave this relationship if something better comes along, or can leave it if the other person doesn't conform to your idea of what the relationship should be. Resolve right now to make a go of this relationship come hell or high water. Never again bring the threat of leaving into an argument. We've been trained by too many TV dramas into thinking that if you have an argument it has to become this big emotional explosion that leads to dramatic separations. It's so childish. Commit to resolving differences and returning to a state of love and lessen your need to prove that you are right and the other person is wrong. Who cares! It's not worth it, if it mucks up the emotional tone of your togetherness.
<b>The Riches of Love</b>
Invest in your relationship and it will pay the biggest and best dividends of your life. Become a love billionaire. Your search for the secrets of how to improve your relationship will be rewarded with an enriched relationship. End the hurt and disappointment, and create the love you deserve in your life. Start by copying the strategies of top 1% of couples who enjoy wonderful love-filled relationships. Discover how to never have fights again, save your marriage, and grow deeply in Love with one another at: <b>http://www.super-self.com/50-secrets-of-blissful-relationships.html</b>
Copyright 2007 Anne Amore
<b>How To Improve Your Relationship</b>
Filed under Uncategorized | Comment (0)Neil Strauss: The Game Has Just Begun
Neil Strauss' story is a typically American one. In fact, it has Hollywood written all over it. Interestingly, though, it's very much real: Guy who can't get any girls, goes to seminars about how to get girls, meets relationship gurus, becomes most famous one himself, gets more girls than he can count.
Not bad, huh? This is a guy who learned directly from the man Marie-Claire called "The World's Greatest Pickup Artist," Mystery, and now gives HIM tips on how to pick up women! On top of that, the guy has interviewed some of the top musical acts: Motley Crue, Marilyn Manson, Dave Navarro, Britney Spears. Heck, he even got Spears' phone number! (But never called her.) He's written books, including the #1 international bestseller, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists. Overall, not a bad resume for a guy who's only in his thirties.
So who is Neil Strauss? Right now he's considered the #1 pickup artist in the world. He goes by the self-selected pseudonym of "Style", and anyone who is even remotely familiar with the seduction community will tell you who Style is. In the world of mPUAs (Master Pick-up Artists to the uninitiated), he is inspiration to millions of horny guys across the globe….and hope for many more.
Currently Neil continues his role at the forefront of the seduction community. Towards the end of 2005, Style decided that he would pass the creme de la creme of seduction knowledge to five selected followers at a three-day seminar at his California home. In 2006, he promoted the sale of only sold 375 exclusive copies of the "Annihilation Method" program to those who arrived first on his website, only375.com. The demand was unprecedented, and cemented his role as not just a seduction guru, but also as seduction MASTER. And every guy who beckoned at his door, was his humble subject.
On May 31, 2006, Strauss spread the word through his VIP mailing list of his newfound "Stylelife Challenge." The program challenges those who have trouble with women to get a date in 31 days or less. Throughout the month of July he gave daily challenges through his Stylelife website, www.stylelife.com. The challenges were designed to help men change their look and overcome their fears, with the ultimate goal of "winning" a date within the 31 days. The most improved guy won a prize, but the prize for Mr. Strauss is very clear: increased exposure, more followers, and being cemented as the indisputable leader of the seduction community.
Not bad for a guy who couldn't get any woman, eh?
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