Surprising Clues He’s Cheating on You
So you think that your man is cheating on you but you don't want to make the mistake of accusing him if you are wrong? Here are some clues that he might be sneaking around:
1) He doesn't want you to see his cell phone or pager.
2) He has several calls, especially at night, that he has to leave the room to take.
3) He forgets to put on his wedding band, claims that it doesn't fit him or professes to have lost it.
4)He accidently comes home with part of his clothing inside out.
5) There is lipstick or perfume clinging to his clothing and he doesn't work in a cosmetics' factory.
6) He mixes up his stories. One minute he was working late and the next he was out to dinner with a client.
7) He doesn't meet your eyes when he tells you where he's been.
He gets defensive when you ask questions.
9) He suddenly is more generous with gifts, flowers etc…
These are just a few possible signs of a possible cheat.
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Following questions & answers are written to help you gain a better understanding about couple therapy.
<b>What is couple therapy?</b>
Couple therapy means resolving problems and conflicts that happened on a couple. Couple therapy focuses on the problems existing in the relationship between couples. Not all couples are married. The term couples therapy is preferred to marriage counseling, marital therapy, or two people who love each other.
<b>What factors that influence a couple's relationship?</b>
Many factors can influence couples relationship & cause couples problems. The factors can come from inner or outer couple. <ul> The inner factors that influence couples relationship such us: <li>abuse of alcohol and/or drugs <li>sexual dissatisfaction <li> illness <li>etc. </li> </ul>
<ul> The outer factors that influence couples relationship such us:
<li>frequent job changes <li>problem in office <li>problem in community <li>etc. </li> </ul>
<b>How do I know if I should see a therapist?</b>
If you have some couple problems and cannot solve it, you need a therapist. When you need a therapist, some signal will appears, like: <ul> <li>can't sleep <li>have problems concentrating <li>feelings of marital dissatisfaction <li>emotional distress <li>drastic weight fluctuations <li>etc. </li> </ul>
<b>How to find a couple therapist?</b>
There are many therapy resources available on the internet, in yellow pages, magazines, and books. It's like you look for a lawyer, an insurance agency, or a doctor. Some information maybe not good, so you have to discuss it with your family, social service agencies, community information centers, or associations related on couple therapy.
<b>How long does couple therapy take?</b>
It depends on the problems, how much effort & time you are willing to put into your healing and growth, and therapist's approach. Some it takes 5-12 sessions on few months. Every session takes around from 75 minutes to 100 minutes. The therapist usually give you an estimate time when create a treatment plan. Just discuss it on early sessions.
<b>Should a couple make an appointment together or separately?</b>
It recommends that both of husband & wife come in together for the first. After first session, therapist can recommend either appointment individually or couple.
<b>How much will it cost?</b>
Costs are various. It depends on how complex your problems are, private practice therapy or in hospital, etc. Costs should be discussed before you take it.
<b>If couple therapy doesn't work what else can I do?</b>
Therapist is like a mediator between couples. Therapist aims is to help couples solve their problem. Therapist gives you important things & advices to do, but the decision is still in your hand. If you have followed all steps but it still doesn't work, therapist should refer you on other treatment. Finally, you have to understand that couple therapy is only one treatment option.
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