Honesty is the Best Policy
When you join an online dating service, you are looking for a girl that you can like…even come to love. That girl is looking for a guy that SHE can like or even love. What you aren't looking for is a girl who would like your best friend or your idea of what the perfect guy looks like or talks like or thinks like. So, in order to find the right girl for you…and she IS out there…you need to be completely honest with yourself about yourself when writing the online profile, during the dating process and beyond.
The best way to begin writing your profile is to carefully analyze your past relationship (s). What was right? What was wrong? What things really made you like the last girl? Which didn't? Don't assume that just because you hated that your last girl was so totally self-involved that she couldn't see anything else, you'll be able to overlook that quality this time. You won't.
If you aren't 6'1" with a six-pack to be proud of, don't claim to be. If you are a bar tender, don't claim to be a lawyer with a six figure income. If you are 40 going on 50, don't pretend to be 30 something.
Remember, the idea here is to find a girl who will like you exactly like you are. If you have lied in your profile, the first face-to-face meeting will remove all her doubt that you are a liar…and probably a cheat, as well.
Lastly, once you have found a girl that you believe can be the one for you, for goodness sakes, cancel your membership to the online dating service. After all, you know and she knows that online dating services are intended for those who are looking…not those who have found or been found.
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Filed under Uncategorized | Comment (0)20 Tale-Tell Signs Your Dating Relationship Is Going No-Where Fast
Many men/women are caught off-guard when a relationship ends but quite often the writings are so obviously on the wall. If you really wanted to see it you'd not miss.
Here are some obvious signs
1. You have a feeling it's not love but you are not sure
2. He/she does not return your phone calls or if the call is dropped you are the one always calling back
3. You don't spend as much time together and there are fewer open days on his/her social calendar.
4. Conversations run dry very quickly
5. Everything you do ticks him/her off and vice versa
6. You chose to believe his/her lies even when you know the truth
7. He/she constantly reminisces over a past relationship and/or ex
8. The word 'space' has been mentioned more than once
9. You don't express what you really feel because you do not want to hurt his/her feelings or drive him/her away
10. You act like you do not know what's going on when you do
11. You are embarrassed to admit to family members, friends or co-workers that you are seeing each other - in a dating way
12. He/she tells you he/she does not think "you are the one"
13. You ask him/her what they like/love about you and he/she takes minutes to think about it or comes up with stuff that has nothing to do with you as a person
14. He/she ignores you in public or spends more time looking at other men/women
15. He/she suddenly want to "see other people"
16. You are not happy but you are also not quite sure if you want to leave
17. You stay because you believe that he/she will not find anyone else who'll love him/her the way you do
18. He/she does not want sex anymore - they may even cringe when you try to touch or be affectionate
19. He/she talks about the future in that obviously does not include you
20. People keep mistaking you for "single" - people who are in love have that twinkle in the eye
Nobody really wants to hurt others or be intentionally cruel (except if he/she is a Psychopath) so most people before they leave will drop hits telling us it's time to go, but you ignore them because you do not want the pain of a break-up. The tricky part is that although you were trying to avoid pain, you end right back to where you started - banging your head against a brick wall and trying to figure it out, why, why did it go wrong? Why me? What's wrong with me? When will I get it right? Who will I end up with? How will I know this one is the right one?
If you are struggling (or going crazy) with getting over a relationship that drifted apart for no apparent reason, the break up was your fault and you think it could have been prevented or if you are considering giving your ex a second chance (and not sure if it's worth a second try), I have a whole section on my website dedicated to men/women trying to love again but feeling stuck on an ex; and anyone convinced his/her current lover is stuck on an ex (some tell-tale signs that he/she is really over an ex).
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