Super Relationship Tips: Surprise Your Partner With A Secret Message
We are all so busy that it's hard to remember, and to find the time, to tell our lovers how much they mean to us. In the beginning it was easy; we so obviously lived just for each other. Even our friends got a little bored with our mutually exclusive focus!
Slowly, life got in the way and responsibilities pulled us in different directions. If we can no longer spend hours exploring each other's world, we can occasionally interject an unexpected message that jolts our partner into a brief moment of focus on us and the relationship between us that is at the core of our existence.
Take a couple of hours when you find yourself with unexpected free time, even if you have to steal it at a dull seminar or when tied up in rush hour traffic. Write up some short little notes telling your partner how much you appreciate them and the particular things they do that make you love them even more.
Then identify innovative ways to deliver your messages. Hide a note inside a dresser drawer. Scrawl it across the bathroom mirror in soap. Mail a personal and confidential letter to your partner's work — send certified so no one else can open it. Send it as an e-mail or leave it on a voice mail or text pager. Tape it to the bedroom or refrigerator door as a greeting when you know you won't be home. Stick it in a coat pocket or wallet to be found at an unexpected moment.
A quick reminder of what our lives are really about is a breath of fresh air in a world so often dominated by outside demands.
Filed under Uncategorized | Comment (0)Do You Look Friendly? Take These Quizzes
Most of us visit gardens. Many times, we see the gardener working. How many of compliment and stop by the Gardner to ask about his life? We visit museums. Do we bother to meet the Administrator and congratulate for the good work being done by him/her? We come across many people in our life such as milkman, sales persons etc., but we never try to connect with them as human beings. We are always in a hurry to finish whatever it is and move.
Does this attitude connect us with people? Does it make us happy? With little change in our approach, we can become very friendly persons and get happiness as a reward. Ask a cabbie driver about his/her life and you will wonder about the kinds of problems these persons face. Our own problems will begin looking small. But we are always occupied. We have no time.
If you have lot many problems and find life tough, try this. Enter cancer ward of your nearby hospital. Meet some patients and talk to them. It will give you a new insight about life and the struggles. Reach out to people and be friends with them. Share your life with them and listen to their stories. You will be amazed at life. We forget that our world does not consist of only our family, friends, our work place and ourselves. Our world has many more people. The only difference is that we can ignore them. But that does not make us better human beings. We become better by connecting with people who have no work with us. That kind of relationship is totally selfless, pure and beautiful.
How does this attitude help? By acting friendly, we get happiness. We give happiness to others. We have no ulterior motive except giving happiness, and that makes us feel very good. That connects us with others as human beings. Do you know about your friendliness? Try quizzes on friendship to find out about that.
Filed under Uncategorized | Comment (0)6 Signs You Have a Cheating Wife
When you get that first inkling that something may be wrong with your marriage do you know the signs that you may have a cheating wife? If the signs are there it might be time to circle the wagons and make a decision as to how to handle the situation. Unfortunately handling a wife's infidelity is a emotional issue and for many men is something they don't even want to think about, let alone deal with. What you decide to do is entirely personal, no matter the advice one may get from family, friends and co-workers. Knowing the signs of a cheating wife at the very least gives you a head start on where your marriage may be going and how to best protect yourself emotionally and financially.
1. Changes in appearance
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