How to Ask Single Women for a Date
How to Ask Single Women for a Date This week I want to focus on some unique ways to ask single women for a date. Try these methods to get a date. They work much better than using the direct approach of just saying, "Would you like to get together sometime?"
Here are some scripts I used successfully to get dates:
Let's say that you just met a single woman and you would like to ask her out to lunch, dinner, attend a function, or go to the beach. Ask her out this way:
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<LI>Next week I'm having lunch at (name a very popular place to eat). Which day can you meet me there for lunch - Monday or Wednesday?</LI>
<LI>"Next week I would like to take you out for dinner at (name a very popular place to eat). Which day would you like me to come by and</LI>
<LI>pick you up - Tuesday or Thursday?"</LI>
<LI>"Next week I'm buying a couple of tickets to the (symphony, circus, Broadway play, opera, etc.). Which day would you like to go - Friday,</LI>
<LI>Saturday, or Sunday?"</LI>
<LI>"I'm driving down to the beach this weekend to take a walk in the sand. Which day would you like to take a walk with me along the beach</LI>
<LI>- Saturday or Sunday?"</LI> </UL>
I think you are getting the point now. You are giving her options and putting her on the spot with the above scripts. These scripts work much better than asking her with a question that she can respond with a rejection. Example: "Would you like to get together sometime? Or, "Would you like to go out for dinner?" She can simply respond with, "No." Guys, use these strategies for asking for a date. You will get a lot more dates instead of turndowns.
Filed under Uncategorized | Comment (0)Marriage Problems Can be Trivial when Compared to the Alternatives
I was talking to a friend the other day about marriage problems and the conversation got totally turned around with the discussion ending up being about how hard life can be for people who are lonely. When you think of how many people now live alone and see how they crave any form of company you begin to understand how trivial marriage problems can be and how important it is to take care of your marriage.
It might not always be easy to live with your spouse but have you ever given real consideration to what life might be like without them? So many people take their marriage vows, quickly learn that marriage isn't quite the fairy tale they expected, suffer a few common marriage problems and start looking for the way out.
Nothing in life is easy, or not for the vast majority of us anyway, and marriage can be just like everything else, plan hard work. You just have to learn to look beyond your daily life, sort out marriage problems in the same way you work through any other problems in your life and you'll quickly learn that marriage comes with lifetime rewards.
I bumped into someone the other day who I hadn't seen for a long time. She had just got married but just two weeks into the union she was already struggling to cope with sharing her life. There didn't appear to be a real marriage problems just a few teething issues that should have been easily resolved yet this person who was a brilliant career person, able to quickly adapt to change in her working life and refocus at the drop of a hat just couldn't see her way through a few minor problems at the start of her marriage.
We talked for quite a while after which she began to see what she thought were serious marriage problems were merely just small, petty, resolvable issues that just needed to be dealt with so that she could get on with enjoying life.
What became quite clear is that people are trained for their careers, training is considered important and a way to make it to the top. With marriage there is no training and there still appears to be a stigma attached to those who try and get the valuable help that they need when they find that they are unable to sort marriage problems on their own.
What people need to understand is getting the communication right in a marriage is important but for many people communication just doesn't come naturally. Often there are just two choices, get help to fix marriage problems and save your marriage or just give up without a fight and let your marriage end up in the divorce courts.
Getting help to save your marriage is the right thing to do. Training is important in every aspect of your life including your marriage. Don't feel shy about seeking help from marriage experts who have dedicated years of their lives to understanding what marriage is all about. If you can't fix your marriage problems on your own don't just throw in the towel when a little push in the right direction might be all you need to return your marriage to wedded bliss.
Filed under Uncategorized | Comment (0)He Wants Another Chance, Should I Give Him One?
You've been hurt for the last time. You've drawn the line to end the aggravation. You declare, "No More!"
Now they are sincerely asking for another chance. "I'll do anything", they cry out with a trembling voice. Their hurt moves you. What if they really mean it this time? How can you be sure?
Keep these 5 points in mind:
1)You don't have to give them another chance. Remembering this point first can save you a lot of unnecessary thinking and unnecessary conversations.
2)If they are sincere, they will keep their promises. If they said they will stop yelling, then they will stop. If they said they will go to therapy, then they will schedule appointments and go (with or without you).
3)They won't pressure you. They will give you plenty of time and space. This point will speak volumes on how sincere they truly are. Manipulative people won't give you the time you need to make the decision that is best for you. They want what is best for them.
4)You will notice more thoughtful listening. Their attitude will be humble, not arrogant or pouting. Trust your instincts. They cannot fake a sincere attitude. Their sincerity will hold up even if you tell them "No" or set some form of limitation on them.
5)You should see an 80% to 90% improvement in areas of their behavior that you had previously complained about, maybe even 100%.
This isn't asking for much. You only want them to give you their best self. If you are weighing whether or not they deserve another chance, find hope in that I see people change all of the time. People make mistakes and mistakes can be corrected. Sometimes it takes the fear and the pain of losing someone you love for their eyes to open and their behavior to change. Hopefully, this will be a life changing event for them, one that will produce their best self. Getting another chance is really not that hard. Most people are forgiving in nature. They believe that people can change and hope that they will change. Maybe this time, they will truly change.
Be very careful in this decision as to whether or not to give them another chance. Commonly, people who are striving to get another chance only are seeking the combination to the lock on your heart. Be careful. These people can be hard to spot because they do make an effort. They will say the things you've wanted to hear. They even go to therapy which they previously had sworn they would never do. These trips to the therapist are used to get professional input on figuring out the combination to your heart so that they can get their foot back in the door.
Give this article to the person who is seeking another chance. Even with these 5 points in front of them, an insincere person will not do these expectations despite the fairness of these requests.
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